I'm very particular about the way I want things cleaned and (dis)organized around the house. I ask Cheryl to help me with one thing - whatever glasses she brings up with her to bed, I want her to bring down in the morning so I can load them into the dishwasher. After months of reminders, I gave up - she never brings them down. So I think I'll post a weekly picture of the state of her nightstand to hopefully shame her into action.